Dan Mohler On Desperate For Love And Appreciation. This is a short word from Dan Mohler talking about how we are desperate from love the moment we are born. Even babies do it without knowing it. Just image when someone teases you when you were in first grade, you get so angry and feel the whole world is coming against you. You try to build up some friends and the feel that is the thing you need. We were created to give love but out of the fall it turned the other way round. Man has now become desperate and in need of love. Why? Because the connection with the One who is love was lost.